Reflecting on such a nonsense for a whole week is completely normal ; you can easily start by being silent too. And then, speak to her very nicely. She'll "listen" to you in her own mystical way. In other words, she erupts! Please be careful. You may ask : who erupts? Don't be mistaken: they are many. When the first of them erupts, the last one erupts too, but there is only one eruption.